WYYLDE CHARTER
RULES FOR EXPLORATION

WELCOME TO WYYLDE

Wyylde is an adult social network devoted to sexual freedom and exploration. People come here to meet, chat, flirt, discover, show or share a part of their sexuality, without having to fit into a box.

Here, nudity and explicit sexuality are not deviations to be corrected. Fantasies, desires and the diversity of practices between consenting adults are all part of what Wyylde lets you explore.

Our position is simple: everyone is free to live and express their sexuality, as long as that freedom does not encroach on the consent, dignity, privacy, integrity or safety of others.

This Charter sets out, in a simple and accessible way, the principles that guide life in the Wyylde community and the moderation of the platform.

Its purpose is to explain and inform. It does not create rules of its own and does not replace the documents that govern the use of Wyylde and the moderation of content.

#1 WYYLDE IS FOR ADULTS ONLY

Wyylde is strictly reserved for people aged 18 or over who also meet any age requirements that apply to the service in their country.

We may ask a member to verify their age or identity.

Any access to or use of the platform by a minor is prohibited.

ALSO PROHIBITED:

  • any sexual content involving or depicting a minor;
  • any sexualisation of a minor;
  • any exchange aimed at sexually soliciting a minor;
  • any sexual content where there is serious doubt as to whether the person depicted is an adult;
  • any staging or depiction that sexualises a minor, including where it is fictional, simulated, animated or generated by artificial intelligence.

These are among the most serious breaches of our Moderation Charter. They may result in the immediate deletion of the account and, where the situation warrants it, cooperation with the relevant authorities.

#2 CONSENT BELONGS TO EACH INDIVIDUAL

Heart-shaped padlock and a key marked YES

Consent is the foundation of every interaction on Wyylde, whether online or when meeting in person.

It must be freely given, informed, specific, ongoing and revocable at any time.

It is never implied, nor is it given once and for all.

Signing up for a party, agreeing to meet, being in a couple, having paid an entry fee, opening a private album or having agreed to a practice in the past never means consenting to anything else.

Silence is not a yes. No reply, a refusal, a block or a change of mind must be respected. Insisting, endlessly bargaining, applying pressure or trying to get around a refusal crosses a line.

A person whose faculties are impaired to the point that they can no longer understand the situation, freely express their choice or maintain their consent cannot consent. This applies in particular when they are asleep, unconscious or heavily affected by alcohol or another substance.

BDSM, role play and simulated non-consent scenarios never suspend these principles.

Your freedom to express your fantasies does not entitle you to involve another member in them without their agreement. Assigning someone a sexual role, imposing an explicit scenario on them or drawing them, against their will, into a fantasy they have not chosen to share may amount to overstepping their limits.

As a couple, consent remains individual

A couple’s profile never creates collective consent.

When an account is used by two people, age, identity and consent are verified separately for each of them.

Each partner remains a person in their own right, free in their desires, their limits and their decisions. One partner’s agreement never counts for the other, and no partner can consent on the other’s behalf.

Other members must therefore approach a couple with respect for each person’s choices. If one of the two declines or withdraws from an interaction, that choice must be respected, even if the other wishes to continue.

Both holders of a couple’s profile are each responsible, towards Wyylde, for the content published from the profile and must ensure that the content and information shared respect each person’s choices.

Finally, consenting to a sexual practice does not mean consenting to being photographed or filmed. Consenting to being photographed or filmed does not mean consenting to those images being shared.

#3 RESPECT PEOPLE, THEIR LIMITS AND THEIR DIGNITY

On Wyylde, we can have very different desires without judging one another. Nobody is obliged to desire everyone, share every practice or respond to every advance.

However, everyone must be able to say yes, no or simply not reply without being harassed, insulted or humiliated.

THE FOLLOWING HAVE NO PLACE ON WYYLDE:

  • harassment and persistent follow-ups after a refusal, no reply or a block;
  • insults, threats, intimidation and aggressive behaviour;
  • body shaming and attacks targeting a person’s appearance, body, sexuality, practices or limits;
  • behaviour that seeks to humiliate, belittle or dehumanise a member;
  • sending photos, videos or other sexually explicit content to someone who has not asked for or welcomed it;
  • hateful or discriminatory remarks relating in particular to origin, skin colour, religion, gender, sexual orientation, disability, health or body size.

A sexual or relationship preference can be expressed without turning a person or a group into an object, a caricature or an inferior category.

Racial fetishisation that reduces someone to their origin or skin colour in a degrading way has no place on Wyylde.

The fact that several adults consent to a sexual role play does not make racial slurs, hate symbols or depictions based on degrading racial fetishisation acceptable on the platform.

What consenting adults choose to do in private, outside Wyylde and within the law, is their own business. Our responsibility is to decide what we agree to host and allow on Wyylde.

Presenting a person as “offered”, “available for use”, “usable”, “guaranteed” or “without limits” may also deny their autonomy and undermine their dignity.

Explicit does not mean degrading by nature. It all depends on how a person is portrayed, the context and their consent.

#4 YOUR IMAGE AND YOUR PRIVACY BELONG TO YOU

Everyone must be able to stay in control of their image, their personal information and any intimate content that concerns them.

IT IS PROHIBITED TO:

  • disclose someone’s personal or identifying information without their permission;
  • photograph or film someone without their knowledge in an intimate or sexual context;
  • publish, send or redistribute an intimate photo or video without the agreement of the person concerned;
  • threaten to make intimate content public, whether or not it actually exists, in order to obtain money, a favour, a meeting, a sexual act or anything else in return;
  • use the image, face, voice or identity of a real person to create an artificial or manipulated sexual depiction without their consent.

Anyone visible or identifiable in content published on Wyylde must have consented to it being captured and shared.

And that consent can change over time.

A person may withdraw their consent at any time to an identifiable photo or video of them appearing on Wyylde, even if they originally agreed to it being published. They can then request its removal.

This also applies to content published by a partner, an ex-partner or from a couple’s profile.

Anyone, whether or not they are a Wyylde member, can request this removal via a dedicated interface on the platform. These requests are handled as a priority.

The non-consensual sharing of intimate images and sextortion are among the most serious breaches of this Charter.

Technology changes nothing about this principle: a deepfake or any artificial sexual depiction of a real person without their agreement is prohibited on Wyylde.

#5 SEXUALITY IS FREE. EXPLOITATION IS NOT

Wyylde fully embraces the diversity of sexualities and the ways people live them.

Nudity, explicit sex, fantasies and practices between consenting adults can be shown, described and discussed on the platform.

Content is not prohibited simply because it is explicit.

We encourage everyone to think about how they choose to present themselves and others. But it is not the Charter’s role to decide which kind of sexuality is more elegant, more respectable or more acceptable than another.

The line lies elsewhere: at exploitation, coercion and the absence of consent.

PROHIBITED IN PARTICULAR:

  • real or non-consensual sexual violence;
  • promoting or organising non-consensual sexual acts;
  • sexual exploitation and human trafficking;
  • making a meeting or a sexual act conditional on a payment, a gift or a benefit;
  • any offer or solicitation amounting to prostitution or paid sexual services.

Where the nature or seriousness of the facts warrants it, Wyylde may preserve the necessary material and share it with the relevant authorities, under the conditions provided for by law.

Wyylde draws a clear distinction between creating adult content and providing paid sexual services.

Personal profiles may not be used to promote a commercial activity or to redirect to external creator platforms. These uses are reserved for Business Pages, in line with the rules that apply to them.

Fiction is no way around our limits

It is not Wyylde’s place to judge what anyone imagines in private. However, what is published, described, depicted or staged on the platform must respect the same red lines.

An act or practice that is prohibited by law does not become acceptable on Wyylde because it is depicted rather than actually committed.

Content, stories, staged scenes or depictions of such acts are therefore prohibited, whether they are real, fictional, simulated, animated or generated by artificial intelligence.

#6 BE YOURSELF, EVEN UNDER A PSEUDONYM

Discretion is part of the freedom Wyylde wants to protect. You can use a pseudonym and choose what you wish to reveal about your identity.

This discretion does not, however, exempt anyone from the mandatory age verification applied by the platform.

But discretion does not mean deception.

IT IS PROHIBITED TO:

  • impersonate another person;
  • create a fake profile or a profile intended to deceive other members;
  • use someone else’s photos while passing them off as your own;
  • falsify a certification or verification;
  • create multiple accounts to defraud, deceive or get around a sanction;
  • run scams or financial manipulation schemes;
  • use bots, scripts or other methods designed to artificially manipulate the platform or its members;
  • send unsolicited advertising, links or messages in bulk.

Commercial use is only permitted in the spaces and under the terms provided by Wyylde.

#7 SHARE WHAT BELONGS TO YOU - OR WHAT YOU ARE AUTHORISED TO SHARE

Publishing something on Wyylde means having the right to do so.

Photos, videos, texts, creative works, trademarks or other content: you must hold the necessary rights and permissions before publishing them.

Photo theft, unauthorised use of content belonging to a third party and infringements of intellectual property rights may lead to the content being removed and action being taken against the account concerned.

And rights over content never replace the consent of the person depicted.

Having the right to use an image does not give you the right to sexualise the real person who appears in it without their agreement.

#8 SOME CONTENT HAS NO PLACE ON WYYLDE

Freedom of expression and sexual exploration does not oblige Wyylde to host content that is dangerous, violent or incompatible with the community’s safety.

PROHIBITED IN PARTICULAR:

  • threats of violence;
  • organising, promoting or facilitating criminal activities;
  • selling, buying or promoting drugs or illegal substances;
  • content that encourages or facilitates suicide or self-harm;
  • bestiality, the sexual exploitation of animals and content depicting them;
  • content showing or glorifying torture, snuff, real extreme violence or the exploitation of a corpse;
  • content glorifying, supporting or encouraging terrorism or violent extremism.

Depictions of weapons are not permitted on Wyylde. This rule covers in particular firearms, machetes, sabres and other weapons designed or presented as intended to injure or kill, whether or not they are used in the scene depicted.

Talking about a personal experience, mentioning a struggle or asking for help is obviously not the same as encouraging or glorifying it.

#9 YOUR SEXUAL FREEDOM MUST NOT BE IMPOSED ON THOSE WHO ARE NOT TAKING PART

Sexual freedom is exercised between people who have chosen to be part of it.

A third party who has not asked for anything must not be involved in a sexual practice, appear in intimate footage or be deliberately exposed to a sexual scene.

This also applies in public places or places open to the public.

A sexual scene filmed or broadcast on Wyylde must therefore not expose people who have not consented to take part in it or be associated with it.

#10 SEXUAL FREEDOM ALSO MEANS PREVENTION

Feeling free also means being able to make informed decisions, change your mind and talk about what you need.

When meeting up, everyone must be able to leave, stop a practice or change their limits at any time.

For a first meeting, it can help to choose a place where you feel comfortable, make sure you can leave easily or let someone you trust know where you are.

Talking about protection, testing, contraception where relevant, the practices you have in mind or your limits takes nothing away from desire. On the contrary, these conversations allow everyone to make their own choices.

Wyylde therefore encourages its members to talk openly about sexual health, prevention and their expectations, without judgement and without turning these recommendations into moral prescriptions.

#11 AN INTERACTION STARTED ON WYYLDE CAN CONTINUE ELSEWHERE. SO CAN OUR LIMITS.

Moving from Wyylde to an external messaging app, an event or a real-life meeting does not make the rules of consent and respect that made that meeting possible disappear.

Serious behaviour that takes place off the platform may therefore be taken into account by Wyylde when it involves members of the community and is connected to a meeting, a conversation or an event organised or initiated via Wyylde.

This may include harassment, violence, breaches of consent, sextortion or the non-consensual sharing of intimate content.

This does not mean that Wyylde intends to govern its members’ private lives. Lawful practices between consenting adults, off the platform, are their own business.

#12 REPORTING ALSO MEANS PROTECTING OTHERS

You do not need to be directly targeted by a behaviour to report it.

If you are affected, witness a situation or simply come across content that seems to breach this Charter, you can alert us.

That is what the reporting tools available on Wyylde and our Support team are there for.

Every profile, message, comment, post, photo, video, Live, group and event has a report button. You will receive an acknowledgement of receipt, then be informed of the decision taken. The identity of the person making the report is not disclosed to the person reported, unless this is strictly necessary or required under a judicial order. Reports concerning a minor, intimate images shared without consent, sexual violence, human trafficking or a threat to a person’s life or safety are handled as a priority.

A report is an alert, not a conviction. You do not have to carry out an investigation yourself or be able to prove on your own what happened. Our teams review the available information, the context and, where relevant, the account’s history.

The fact that a report does not result in a sanction does not mean it was unfounded.

However, deliberately misusing the reporting tools to harass, intimidate or harm someone may itself constitute a breach of this Charter.

#13 WHEN A LINE IS CROSSED, WYYLDE TAKES ACTION

Moderation does not mean applying the same sanction to every situation.

We take into account the nature of the facts, their seriousness, the context, whether they are repeated and the account’s history.

Our decisions are made diligently, objectively and proportionately, taking into account everyone’s rights and legitimate interests, in particular freedom of expression and privacy. Wyylde may, on its own initiative, look for content that breaches its rules, without being subject to a general monitoring obligation.

DEPENDING ON THE CASE, WYYLDE MAY:

  • request changes to content, a profile, a post or an event;
  • remove or delete content;
  • issue a warning;
  • temporarily restrict certain features;
  • suspend an account;
  • permanently delete an account.

Our detection tools flag and sort, but a moderation decision is always made by a person.

The most serious breaches, in particular those involving minors, sexual violence, exploitation, sextortion or the non-consensual sharing of intimate content, may result in the immediate deletion of the account, without prior warning.

When action is taken against a member, Wyylde informs them, tells them the reasons and explains the options available to them to challenge it, where applicable.

A challenge is reviewed in light of the information provided and may lead to the original decision being upheld, amended or overturned.

When we become aware of facts that may constitute a serious offence, Wyylde informs the relevant authorities without delay: in France, via PHAROS; elsewhere, the authority of the Member State concerned or, failing that, Europol.

Finally, a certification, a profile verification or the moderation of content or an event never constitutes a guarantee of a member’s future behaviour or of how a meeting will go.

THERE IS NO FREEDOM WITHOUT THE FREEDOM OF OTHERS

Wyylde exists to enable adults to explore their sexuality, their desires and their relationships with greater freedom.

That freedom is precious. It is precisely to protect it that certain limits are non-negotiable.

Sex, nudity, fantasies and practices between consenting adults have their place on Wyylde.

Coercion, exploitation, humiliation, invasions of privacy and anything that takes away another person’s choice do not.

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